Asking a couple who are divorcing or separating to practice social distancing from each other is second nature in normal circumstances, as most contact post-separation is minimal, usually only to organise parenting time with their children.
But these are not normal times or circumstances. The perverse cruelty of the Coronavirus pandemic is that separating couples and their children are finding themselves holed up together for an indefinite period, adding to the tension, anger and bitterness that so often accompany the split.
With no escape route to family or friends during COVID-19, there is a real risk that conflict will simmer and boil over and even lead to violence. In England and across Europe there has been a spike in the number calls to the police and domestic abuse helplines.
So how can couples caught in the Coronavirus trap stop things spiralling out of control during the lockdown?
These survival guidelines should help
These simple rules should help to instil some structure into a temporary but stressful situation and also ease tensions.
This awful pandemic is forcing us to do everything differently, from the way we work and interact to coming to terms with social distancing and the two-metre rule and surviving isolation and loneliness. Whilst keeping two metres apart in the home is not possible for most, one positive that might arise from COVID-19 is that we all might learn to communicate in a better, kinder way once things are back to normal.
Perhaps the new normal for separating couples stuck under the same roof is that they will forge a new relationship with their ex, as housemates and friends.
Laceys family and mediation departments remain open, providing advice, support and assistance to clients during this difficult period. Unfortunately, we are currently unable to undertake meetings in the office but we are able to conduct MIAM appointments or mediation sessions via Skype rather than having to be postponed.
Please visit our website www.laceyssolicitors.co.uk for further information and regular updates.
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